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Sexy This Week; Stolen Glances

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The difference between a stolen glance and a glaring stare is the creep factor! IT’S CREEPY! Stealing glances from something you admire is cute, sweet, and lets the object of admiration, in this case a person, know, you’re not a creep with ill intentions that are untoward. Sneaking a peek done well is part of the art of playful flirting, overtly stopping and glaring is part of the art of a punch square in the face. Quick, stolen glances for the object of your affection is what’s sexy this week.

When your attentions have been overtaken, you want to look, look further and investigate the allure that has you in it’s grasp. A grasp that for the most part has control of your mind leaving you unable to think or focus on the original tasks you set out to (more…)

Tidbits; Vibrator Frequencies

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The world of vibrators designed for the nether regions is pretty amazing, especially with the multitude of choices out there. I am going to forgo the colours, shapes and sizes, and talk more about those in later tidbits, for now I am going to focus on the vibration, and in particular the pitch and speed otherwise known as frequency.

Many are faced with a multitude of options and truthfully just don’t know where to start, and the most common is the vibration (more…)

The Marathon Man, As Seen In HUSH Magazine,

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The marathon man, and no I’m not talking about athletes, although this kind of man fancies himself that. A hot and heavy session of marathon sex is not without it’s benefits: the closeness, the passion, action, varied positions, all to the culmination of the explosive orgasm. But in reality, once twenty minutes has been surpassed, at least one of the participants, and we’ve all heard this before, is thinking of what colour nail polish to wear next, or if the underwear they put on that morning was actually clean.

Many without knowing it have the world of pornography to thank for that, the often unrealistic time span presentations of couples engaged in endless pounding action and deep throated gobbles. (more…)

Where Babies Come From!!

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Sexy This Week; A Hairy Chest

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Manscaping; the term for male maintenance of unwanted, unruly, overgrown body hair, done generally at the discretion of the owner of that hair. Yes this month is about objectifying the male of the human species, and why not? Men are hot, as are women, but for this month I am all about the men!

At some point in a man’s life, most men have explored the idea of removing their chest hair and for a multitude of reasons. From wanting a smoother cleaner look and feel, medical reasons, for photos, show off better muscle definition, and many, for reasons we’ll never know. At the beginning of the 21st century a clean shaven chest took on a fashion sense and a life all of it’s own, a life adopted by many young men, a life proudly worn on the beaches, in magazines and the all to popular adult film. (more…)

Sexy This Week; Good Health

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The minute we are conceived deep within our mother’s womb is when it all starts, the essence of our physical health. For all of us it is something we cannot control, for our mother’s body is the vessel that is the environment for us to develop and grow into hopefully a happy, healthy human being. Fed by the nutrients that enter our developing system through our mother’s mouth, however not all that is ingested to enable us to grow is good for you, that is the unfortunate fact we have no control over. However once free of the womb and able to make decisions for oneself (more…)

Podcasts: RawSex Interview; #17 Velvet Steele: Vancouver’s Transsexual Fetish Lady

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Another amazing interview with the folks at RawSex!

Sex Workers Speak Out

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Originally Posted July 26/14

This is about the Vancouver event held on July 24. Thanks Maggie for this wonderful article!

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Several women inspired me last night. And made me laugh. And cry.

Scarlett Lake and Velvet Steele have made their living from sex work for decades. Last night, for over an hour, they answered questions from a supportive audience about their lives, (more…)

Tidbits; Guy or a Girl?

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To be or not to be? That’s always been the question, and most likely always will be. When I set out on my own journey to be happy in my own skin, I must say I was somewhat naive to certain aspects that were to come along with it. Aspects that girls, and women go through on a daily basis. I am not going to outright spell it out for you, but because I can, and will, within the context of this tidbit, be somewhat vague.

I’ve always been androgynous, something I was able to use to my advantage in my early days of advertising professional fetish services; “Androgynous Pretty Boy/Girl Will Whip You Into Shape!” It paid off, clients got it and so did the rest in my social circle. At the time I was still very much immersed in dealing with my own dysphoria, (more…)

Sexy This Week; Hairy Forearms

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Manscaping is a good thing, but these days it has been taken to extremes in my eyes and the beholders of many others. What started off as a process to clean up the hair from unruly eyebrows, legs, backs and butt crack, seems to have extended beyond that to the forearms of so many overly processed pretty boys. Looking at smooth forearms evokes images of prepubescent boys, that make even the most tolerant give their heads a shake. Hairy forearms on a man, that’s what’s sexy this week.

Hair on a man is not all coarse and prickly, but quite the contrary, soft, downy and wonderful to touch! Even the legs, of which the women and men into men, know the feel of hairy legs rubbing up against their own in the heated frictions of passion, (more…)