Sex/Sexuality

Erotic Art, That’s What’s Sexy This Week

sexy-this-week-erotic-art-larry-vincent-garrison

Erotic art, that’s what sexy this week.

We all know I love art of multiple kinds, but one particular genre of the sexuality kind I truly love, is the erotic. I find it compelling, inviting, thought provoking, and downright sexy. To be inspired by erotic art is the very least I can write, because its a combination of all these elements that help to put a smile on a person’s, and their mind!

Artist’s depictions of erotism have been created for centuries, not just in nude human form, but in some of the unlikeliest. Items found in daily life, the sexy-this-week-erotic-art-melon-lovehome, the streets, renditions dreamt up in the minds of the ingenious. Inventive depictions using fruits and vegetables, found in architecture, items from the beach, or the clouds in the sky.

I think you get the point from my over zealous examples, but this is exactly what erotic art does for me, it stimulates me.

I definitely know I’m not the only one stimulated by erotic art, because if the line up down the street was any indication at this years Boobies and Wieners Erotic Art Show, then stimulation and titillation was what the throngs were in line for. If you’ve never been, then I suggest you keep an eye out for next year’s show. You’ll love the art, and the energy of the folks at the show. Giggling, chatting, sipping on a cocktail or two and possibly buying a piece of art to hang on a wall at home. The art is beautiful, erotic, sexy, and well worth the incentive.

sexy-this-week-erotic-art-ride-em-lil-dongky

Erotic art isn’t for everyone, and I’m not quite sure why. I prefer to believe its the uncomfortable embarrassment and nothing else, proving my point about stimulation. I remember a school trip to Kleinburg Ontario, the home of the McMichael Art Collection dedicated to the Group of Seven. During this visit an exhibition of nudes from the masters of old were on display, but our classes were not allowed to see them. A decision made by one of our teachers, a rather outspoken religious woman, a decision that didn’t stop me. I snuck away from the group, eager to feast my eyes upon the lusty canvasses denied my eyes, and see what all the fuss was about.

Rounding the corner on the second floor of the gallery while my classmates were bombarded with boredom from the Group of Seven, I was stopped dead in my tracks. A woman in full recline on a red velvet chaise with creme coloured fabrics draping her shoulders, across her torso, trailing down to her feet and across. It was beautiful, the colours, the richness, the decadence, and the casual repose. This is what we were not allowed to see?

Lasting impressions, an imprint I am grateful for because I was caught not to long after for “straying” from the group.

Again, art is truly in the eye of the beholder, I just happen to like mine vivid, beautiful, sexy, and above all erotic. I like stimulation, don’t you?sexy-this-week-erotic-art-canova-nude-recline-pauline-bonaparte

O Force 2 Male Vibrator Review

review-O-force-2-male-masturbator-1

O Force 2 Male Vibrator

As many of you remember I was reviewing adult toys in the not so distant past, things changed and I took a break from it. Well I’m back, sort of!

“Therapeutical Aids,” that’s what I call these toys, because sex and orgasm is supposed to be therapeutic, no?

I’m starting back at it with the O Force 2, male masturbator that boasts “five different intensities to produce potent stimulation” provided by two separate motors, the major difference from it’s predecessor the O Force. On first glance, the packaging is simple, sleek, and without the tacky dated pictures of porn stars with that hilariously fake orgasm face. Instructions are printed on the outside of the box with illustrations detailing the 3 AA batteries it requires, the 5 speeds, and that it’s waterproof. Simple enough.review-O-force-2-male-masturbator-2

Now, these are the only instructions, because when you open it, there is nothing inside the box except the device supported between two plastic cradles. Easy to remove, it’s pretty much ready for action, all you need to do is twist it open and insert the batteries. Fairly easy, unless you have some sort of substance on your hands that makes your hands slide preventing you from getting a firm grip. It’s a tight twist, and you’ll need that firm grip to twist it open and my talcum powder fingers didn’t quite work.

Once I did get it open, the batteries inserted, I screwed it back together tight, but not before noticing the single and double slotted grooves on the length end opening, and the same single and double ridges on the cap’s opening end. This indicating that it goes back together in a very specific way. Take note of that, don’t try forcing it, you’ll end up breaking it, and it won’t work. Simple, you’ll see what I mean when you have one of your own in your hands.

review-O-force-2-male-masturbator-8Simply hold down the button on the end and voila, it’s on. It’s easy to push, and the low rumble the O Force 2 emits on the first setting is rather soft. Incrementally the other levels graduate in stages to a fifth level that is kind of pulsing, alive almost, a very interesting feeling on my fingers, and it’s strong. I can’t wait to hear what the opinions will be like when my guy has a go with it for it’s intended purpose.

It’s made of strong, stretchy silicone, with ridges on the outside for grip. These ridges don’t translate to the inner cavity, it’s completely smooth inside. I measured the depth as three inches and there is a pronounced ridge on the inside that houses one of the motors that oscillates between the second for that “alive” feeling. So for you big guys out there who think you are going to ram yourself full hilt into this, you can forget that.

review-O-force-2-male-masturbator-3review-O-force-2-male-masturbator-4review-O-force-2-male-masturbator-5review-O-force-2-male-masturbator-7

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

It’s designed to fit snug around those first three inches of your manhood and provide simulation to that portion of the penis. I have to admit it does feel very interesting inside, pleasurable to say the least, like a tight smooth glove. As for waterproof, well maybe, but water resistant for sure, and honestly, the price is pretty damn good for this kind of silicone and vibration.

You can take a look at the link below, but be sure catch me a bit later as I’ll be doing a follow up review, once my guy has had a chance to get down to business.

O Force 2 male vibrator

Cleavage and Plunging Décolletage, That’s What’s Sexy This Week.

loren_mansfield_Cleavage_Plunging_Décollatage_Sexy_This_Week

The sensuous line and curves the cleavage beholds of the plunging décollatage, that’s what’s sexy this week.

Wikipedia defines Cleavage as the exposed area between a woman’s breasts lying over the sternum, and refers only to what is visible with clothing (or dense, nontransparent body art) that includes a low-cut neckline, the décolletage. Yes, this a shameless ditty about the titty on display, because a little or a lot of objectification can go a long way.

The politically overcorrect usually don’t find my musings of Sexy this Week enlightening, because I certainly hear about it, that’s how I know. Ask me if I care? I don’t, because I’m busy looking at the cleavage of confident, secure women with their décolletage on proud display!

The phrase “tit’s up” according to urban dictionaries originally had a negative definition attached; dead mammals on their backs, tit’s up, a situation gone wrong. However I don’t think most of us have come to define it that way. Rather, a phrase of success!

Successful cleavage always catches the eyes of every beholder, it certainly gets my gaze! After the initial vision is enjoyed, I’m left taking in the total look from top to bottom, and back up again. The décolletage is sensual but above all commanding, and when worn well, I mean with confidence, the amplification is deafening.

Yes we all love the curves, the lines, the skin and comforting softness, maybe that’s what has everyone cautiously looking on, but the women wearing it also know the power a good cleavage can wield. Mothers, aunts, grandmas and a good friend, all know this. Most of us have had our heads and faces delicately smothered by a set of breasts in that nurturing comforting embrace. Hell even I find myself giving a good comforting smother to those in need. Feels good for both of us.

Psycho babble aside, and back to basic human instinct, it’s about the boobs! Women rival over a low neckline, drag queens shade and paint to perfection, and the men…..drool. Love em or leave em, I’m onboard. Tits up, guns out, shoulders back and heads held high……

In the words of author Judy Blume along with and some of my own non-shameless self presentations.

“We must, we must, we must increase our bust.”

Cleavage_Plunging_Décollatage_Sexy_This_Week_3Cleavage_Plunging_Décollatage_Sexy_This_Week_4

The Male Chest in a Fitted Dress Shirt, That’s Whats Sexy This Week!

I’m not one to shy away from shameless exploitation of the sexes, especially if it’s all in good fun. As we slowly ebb into fall, all those beach bodies on glorious flagrant display are opting to modestly disappear behind the opaque barriers of fabric. With the fall, comes the addition of clothes for the creatures of the beach, setting the stage for a new form of ogling to take place.

The male chest in a well fitted dress shirt, that’s what sexy this week.

I love the cut of a well tailored dress shirt and the way it fits the body. The buttons, the cuffs and collar, yoke, colours and patterns, sewn together to form the garment worn for business, casual, or a hot night out. Well pressed and starched to lay smooth across a well defined chest and dutifully conceal the results of long hours at the gym.

 

 

 

 

(more…)

Transgender Day of Remembrance TDOR

Transgender-day-remembrance

Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDoR), also known as the International Transgender Day of Remembrance, is observed annually on November 20 as a day to memorialize those who have been murdered as a result of transphobia and to draw attention to the continued violence endured by the transgender community. However, for many of us it means so much more and in different ways. Transgender Day of Remembrance, that’s what’s important this week.

(more…)

Fleshlight’s Freak Series and Zombie Dildo’s Just in Time For Hallowe’en and Beyond

wacky-wednesday-fleshlights-freak-series-

Since Halloween is just around the corner, my favourite time of the year, I thought it would be the ideal post to celebrate All Hallow’s Eve in sexy wacky style. Let me remind you that Wacky Wednesday was created to showcase all things wacky in the world of sex toys, and we know there is a lot. However Wacky Wednesday has also grown to include the “wild and wondrous” of the internet, showcasing creations I find in my travels in cyber land, in case you were wondering.

wacky-wednesday-fleshlights-freak-series-zombie-dildo-

As a sex toy reviewer, why not? After all it is halloween and people don’t stop fucking just cause they are handing out candy do they? I only hope they are not doing both at the same time!

Anyway………

(more…)

Internet Trolls Creeping Around for This Week’s Tidbits

Trolls, I’m not talking about the mythical cave-dwelling being depicted in folklore as either giant or dwarf, typically having an ugly appearance. Nor am I writing about the cute, cuddly, sweet looking, creatures with brightly coloured hair, in the latest instalment from Dreamworks. I’m talking about Internet Trolls, and although not mythical, what they do share is the commonality of being ugly, from the inside out.

An Internet Troll according to Wikipedia; In Internet slang, a troll (/ˈtroʊl/, /ˈtrɒl/) is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting quarrels or upsetting people, by posting inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a newsgroup, forum, chat room, or blog) with the intent of provoking readers into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal, on-topic discussion, often for the troll’s amusement.

(more…)

Body Dysmorphia For This Week’s Tidbits

idbits-body-dysmorphia-1

Recently I was accused of having body dysmorphia “issues”. 

Wikipedia classifies Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a mental disorder characterized by an obsessive preoccupation that some aspect of one’s own appearance is severely flawed and warrants exceptional measures to hide or fix it.[1] In BDD’s delusional variant, the flaw is imagined.[2] If the flaw is actual, its importance is severely exaggerated.[2] Either way, one’s thoughts about it are pervasive and intrusive, occupying up to several hours a day.

stw_goals_fitness

and the definition goes on……..

Let’s just say that I thought the statement was somewhat humorous, and a completely stupid accusation!

For those that know me, and those that know me well that the statement is so far from the truth I just don’t know where to begin refuting it, so much so that I won’t. What strikes me is the need for these types of individuals to get in my face and declare they know me better than my own self. If we look at Wikipedia’s definition closely and that of other classifications, it would suggest that I spend hours a day occupying my time over what I construe as flaws, again I cannot begin to start where this is so wrong!

(more…)

Wacky Wednesday: The Kissenger

WW-40-lovotics-kissenger-new-version

Well here you have it, two companies competing for your sales of providing you with the ability of long distance kisses for your loved ones in far off places.

I’m not sure who came up with the idea first, and I don’t care, it’s the idea I love. First is Lovotics  with an interesting little selection of devices you can hook up to your computer and send kisses from afar to afar. In their words;

Kissenger is an application of Lovotics. Kissenger system consists of a pair of robots to transfer kiss over distance.

Kissenger provides a novel way of transferring a kiss through interactive digital media. It provides a physical interface enabling kiss communication for several applications facilitating intimate human tele-presence with the real and virtual worlds.
Kissing is a very important mode of human communication that involves joining lips in order to express many deep felt positive emotions such as affection, respect, greeting, farewell, good luck, romantic affection or sexual desire. Apart from the surface level enjoyment humans have by kissing, it also plays a crucial biologically motivated role in allowing prospective mates to smell and taste each other’s pheromones for detecting compatibility.
With the aid of digital communication media and advanced robotic technology, the system takes the form of an artificial mouth that provides the convincing properties of the real kiss.(more…)

Sexy This Week; Sexuality

velvet-steele-topless-by-rick-legal-censored

We all have it, and we all present it, whether you like it or not, are conscious of it, or are in full on denial and trying very hard to suppress it. It comes naturally, and for those in control of it and enjoying it to their full advantage, it’s hot, empowering, and a turn on, sexuality and that’s what sexy this week.

As a woman who is transsexual, I am bombarded daily from, for lack of a better term, “nut-jobs” who are telling me that my presentation of my sexuality married with my sexual self, is a little overt and to tone it down a few notches. Well I have a few choice words for you folks;

FUCK YOU! (more…)