Arts/Culture

Tidbits; Masturbation Antics

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Like most human beings I know, I am horny a lot, yearly, daily, hourly…….ok pretty much all the time, and NEED to rub one out daily or I get a wee bit cranky to say the least! Just as everyone else does, I have my routine when getting down to business for a little alone time and trust me it doesn’t include anyone else in the picture except the visuals supplied by my laptop. My alone time is just that, alone time that I cherish for a little, and usually a lot of stress relief. At this point I am focused on me, myself, and I, and I’m not saying I’m selfish here, to the contrary, I’m an enthusiastic lover, always eager to pull my own weight, but one thing we can all agree on is the necessary quality of uninterrupted alone time. There’s nothing like it!

At any rate there I was itching to flick the bean, armed with my trusty laptop, I seated myself at the island of my kitchen ever so precise to angle my barstool, laptop, lube and legs in place. With one foot up on the counter and the other over on the matching stool, (more…)

Tidbits; May is MASTURBATION Month

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Get to it!!!! This may explain me a little bit since this is my birth month!!! LOL

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Sexy This Week; Rain

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I live in Vancouver! It has milder weather than the rest of this big beautiful country I call my home, Canada. With that comes the rain, rain that keeps the grass green, the trees lush, the flowers in full bloom, and even tops up the water sheds that provide most folks in the lower mainland with one of the life giving nutrients most creatures on this planet need. However, it doesn’t rain as much as everyone else seems to think it does, but when it does, it’s a welcome change to the seasons we experience here in Vancouver, one that is warmly welcomed, and its the rain that’s sexy this week.

Watching the darkened clouds billow in over the city skyline gearing up for a release of always fresh smelling, cooly tingling drops of rain is always exciting. A sight packed with as much emotion as the blanket of fog that gently unfurls itself over the city moving eastward from the harbour inland through the downtown streets onward to the pathways of the parks. Sexy to say the least watching nature do what it does best, LIVE!wet chest (more…)

As Seen In; Daily Xtra, Stop Criminalizing Sex Work, Vancouver Sex Workers Say

Published Tue, Mar 4, 2014 8:25 pm EST

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As Seen In HUSH Magazine; High Rise Voyeurs and Exhibitionists

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As we all know the central core of Vancouver is jam packed with high-rise buildings to the point of being known as the most densely populated downtown in all of North America. It goes without saying that “things” get seen and “things” get done. The things I am talking about are sex, and lots of it! Downtown dwellers are doing it from the ground floor and up, all the way to the rooftop (and that equates to a lot of window space). I consider these as stages of the theatres in the sky of each and every building visible on the city skyline. Red-hot stages displaying the actions of the adventurous that have chosen not (more…)

Tidbits; Telephone Talk

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How do you screen your clients? How do you know they are legit? How do you know you’ll be safe? Questions that always seemed to be asked of me when providing the services of a Pro-Domina was my main stay.

It wasn’t old hat from the get go, but let’s just say that it certainly didn’t take long! In the early days of using the phone, long before pagers and cell phones, yes I am going back a bit, security was of the utmost of importance. It wasn’t because I was reading horror stories of folks going missing because of sex work, it was because it made COMMON SENSE! (more…)

Podcasts; CKNW Sunday Night Sex Show

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Listen in, you’ll hear me on the last 10 minutes, but the whole thing is GREAT talk with Maureen McGrath. You can find more of the Sunday Night Sex Show here

Tidbits; I Do What I Want

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Let me start by saying I didn’t get to where I am today by flipping burgers at McDonalds, but I did apply once and thank god a friend of mine who answered the phone when they called, told them politely to “get lost”. I learned early on that getting and holding a job was going to be somewhat of a challenge and there were several reasons for that, not reasons of my own. If I wasn’t getting fired for not sleeping with the boss, I was getting canned for the delusions of alcoholic, drug addicted managers and by the insecure who were seriously intimidated by me – a threat to their position. Many times I was turned away at the door after they put a face to the resume, or for lame assed excuses that I didn’t fit the corporate image, for example at a telephone dating hookup company. WTF!? I learned I was always going to affect those folks that were beyond my control or positive influence, mostly based on ignorance. Basically for being me! I learned that as a person who was and is different from the status quo I had to think outside the box. (more…)

Reviews; Fetish Dice Play

Fetish Play DiceHow’s this for a couple’s interactive game that will leave you both laughing, talking, and or course touching?  The Fetish Dice Play Game from Ball and Chain Fun. Roll the dice and do what they say! A simple game without rules or instructions, it’s that easy and fun!  Be tickled pink, whipped, paddled, tied-up, or punished, while acting out, or acting your deviant fantasies. Simply take turns rolling the dice and indulge.

Tidbits; Park Sex

Park StatuePeriodically I go for long walks with a coffee or tea to people watch and take in the beauty this fair city I live in has to offer. I mean who wouldn’t, Vancouver is AMAZING! Anyway after awhile I found myself sitting on the bench in the park watching the water and the people walk by, and I began to think about what all these people of all ages, all walks of life, do in their sex lives. Are they kinky, vanilla, missionary, like it where the sun don’t shine, threesomes, group action, do they still have sex? Wander, as my mind is want to do, it suddenly popped into my head the answer to a random question that was asked by one of the boys at the cocktail lounge I frequent.

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