Blog

Reviews; Silicone Explorers

anal explorer setCute and almost cuddly in pretty pastel colours! Now who wouldn’t want a set of these from the folks at The Sinclair Institute? These little cuties fit onto the tip of your finger for easy control and easy insertion. Made of 100% medical grade silicone they are phthalate free, non-porous and ultra hygienic. They are easy to clean with mild soap and water, boiled, or placed on the top rack of your dishwasher; although the 2 latter options are a little aggressive in my opinion as a method of cleaning. For a completely different approach serve hot, heated under hot water, or chilled over ice for intensive sensory enhancement. These babies are ideal for the beginner players wishing to explore the backdoor entry for a new kind of intimacy. Don’t let the size fool you, although they are petite, first time adventurers may not enjoy the road ahead, so if this is uncharted territory take your time and explore every nook and cranny. A word of caution as with most silicone aids, use water based lubricants to prolong the life of your sweet little babies. They are just so cute you can’t afford to pass them up!

SOLD IN SETS OF TWO

Tidbits; Park Sex

Park StatuePeriodically I go for long walks with a coffee or tea to people watch and take in the beauty this fair city I live in has to offer. I mean who wouldn’t, Vancouver is AMAZING! Anyway after awhile I found myself sitting on the bench in the park watching the water and the people walk by, and I began to think about what all these people of all ages, all walks of life, do in their sex lives. Are they kinky, vanilla, missionary, like it where the sun don’t shine, threesomes, group action, do they still have sex? Wander, as my mind is want to do, it suddenly popped into my head the answer to a random question that was asked by one of the boys at the cocktail lounge I frequent.

(more…)

Podcasts: Transister; All About The Balls

Velvet Steele Transister

All About Balls

Originally Released; Oct 21, 2012

Velvet has balls on the brain in this week’s episode, discussing her first experience with ball-busting, tucking the balls, where they go when tucked, the ups and downs of ball spreaders and all the cringe-worthy details involved in a inguinal orchiectomy. Velvet also reports on trans topics in the news and a listener email asking how Velvet became a dominatrix.

Play

Tidbits; Opinion: Focus on ‘high-risk lifestyle’ shifts blame from violent perpetrators to their victims

red lips

Here is an opinion article courtesy of the folks at Living in Community by Tricia barnes; a non-profit I am working with here in Vancouver on issues of sex work. This article details the recent murder of two sex workers found murdered in New Westminster and the continued stigmas that the media and other organizations continually place on one of the oldest professions. Good job ladies!

“In separate incidents on Aug. 12 and Aug. 25, two women were found dead in their apartments in the same New Westminster building. Both women were believed to have worked as escorts

(more…)

Tidbits; The Intersex!

xxy1After watching a lovely video by one of my fave bands, Goldfrapp, Annabel. I was brought to tears, watching and listening to the lyrics so eloquently written by that dynamic duo. It struck so many chords and given what is in the news these days regarding the issue, I wanted to express that on some of the sites I “was” on.

I say “was on” since I am no longer as I came up against cowards not wishing to address anything to do with it and shut me down. Yes I get your “terms of service” but when they seriously conflict with your “mission” statement well WTF! No room for discussion, hear me out, change a few policies? I think that most western

 

(more…)

Podcasts: Transister; A Chat With The Artist D

Velvet Steele Transister

A Chat with D

Originally Released; Oct 14, 2012

A conversation with Internet personality, podcast host and cross-dresser The Artist D as Velvet discusses life, love and other facets of living as a girl in a the body of a man. Other show topics include mom’s high heels, being caught playing dressup, pedicures, foot massage, the complexities of foot feminization and finally, trans in the news.

Play

Reviews; Lelo Luna Beads Noir

Lelo Luna Beads NoirLelo’s take on the world popular “Ben Wa balls“. Sleek and sophisticated these are the black version of the original Luna Beads with two obvious differences, the colour, and the two sets of balls in 28 and 37 gram balls. The Noir version comes with the 37 gram balls of a 29 mm diameter for easy insertion and comfortable wear for daily use, during foreplay, and even penetration for the adventurous. I love that the “bra” to support the balls is medical grade silicone and the balls, an ABS phthalate free plastic. The balls are counter weighted allowing for muscle contraction without the wearer even aware it is stimulating the muscles of the pelvic floor. Remember they are easy to wear whenever you want, and easy to clean. Simply pop the balls out of the bra holder and wash with mild soap and water. My only thought is that they could have included more or possibly heavier balls. Maybe I am speaking to soon? Separately, or the lovers kit with blindfolds and a lovely flogger! Be Daring!

Tidbits; Sextoys or Therapeutical Aids?

lilsisjul11-3How did these lovely devices we have come to cherish so much come to be called “sextoys”? To be honest I am not to sure since I can’t seem to find the information, but I am sure it has some funky origins within the latin language.

To start Wikipedia defines it as such;

A sex toy is an object or device that is primarily used to facilitate human sexual pleasure, such as a dildo or vibrator. Many popular sex toys are designed to resemble human genitals and may be vibrating or non-vibrating. (more…)

Reviews; Liquid Silk

 

Liquid SIlk

Liquid Silk is a water based lubricant created for use with intimate massage, foreplay, and sexual intercourse. Manufactured in the UK under the strictest conditions to meet all health and safety guidelines, it is shipped sealed for your protection complete with a Bin Number and Best Before date ensuring a quality product. It’s even palatable, so no more tongue wiping and funny faces from an unpleasant taste that lingers a little to long. It even makes a great skin conditioner aside from being fun to use is loved by both sexes, used by many couples. However for those that are health conscious and those fast becoming, it does contain all the parabens that many are now trying to avoid in their product ingredients. I can tell you that it does work, and is truly a silk against your skin, but  the choice to use is your’s if you don’t mind the ingredients. If your curious, the folks at Environmental Working Group have provided an extensive list of ingredients used in consumer products along with their definitions. A resource I highly recommend. Ingredients; Highly Purified water, Propylene Glycol, Isopropyl, Palmitate, Dimethicone, Cellulose Polymer, Polysorbate 60, Sorbitan Stearate, Cetearyl Alcohol, Glycerol Stearate NSE, B.N.P.D., Di Sodium EDTA, Phenoxyethanol, Methyl Paraben, Butyl Paraben, Ethyl Paraben, Propyl Paraben, BHT.

 

Reviews; Love Bumper’s Iceberg

95. Iceberg sex cushionSore back or weak muscle control? Have I got a cushion for you Love Bumper’s Iceberg! A truly versatile cushion that helps lift your legs and support your back to positions previously thought unattainable. It helps to change the angle of insertion for a more “fulfilled” experience for both parties involved. Grip it good to keep in place for a good old pounding or use it hands free as it provides comfort and support. It truly is amazing, and a proud fact, is a BC made product. Waterproof and made with durable long lasting materials, the unique feature is a removable shell that unzips with ease for a machine washable cleanse. The shell is a velvety plush microfibre in a choice of 7 colours, black, red, purple, orange, grey, green and blue. There is even a pocket for your favourite vibe for some serious enhancement of the big “O”. The elevated angle allows your partner improved access to your G-spot or prostate. Great for mild back problems the high density foam interior

(more…)