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Quiet Reflection and Contemplation, That’s What’s Sexy This Week

Quiet reflection and contemplation, that’s what sexy this week.

For many of us, we’re moving at the speed of light into a brick wall or two, not giving ourselves a chance to slow down with time for ourselves. We’re wired to the world, attached to anything and everything hoping for that next big break. The “big break” we are conditioned to believe is just around the corner.

We are wired to social media, posting if not once, but several times a day exposing parts of our lives we wouldn’t share with our parents. Feeling guilty if we miss a beat and in the process letting down fans and followers. Better yet, as the influencers many of you are, showing and selling products you’ve never even used, let alone know much about.

Then there’s the cost of living! Inflation doesn’t stop, it only seems to go up and up and up creating a whole different type of stress when it comes to paying the bills. Work work work, all work and no play, most certainly doesn’t allow for a time out moment. Most of us are way too busy living to work, when we should be working to live, and enjoy life.

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Yes it gets stressful when the bills aren’t paid and you lag behind, I’m no stranger to that. However, a valuable lesson I learned in the recent past was making time for some self care.

Remember that, self care, is any necessary human regulatory function which is under individual control, deliberate and self-initiated for one’s personal well-being and health?

Many of us don’t find, make, or set aside the time, but we sure can make enough excuses!

So……ENOUGH EXCUSES, find, make, and set aside the time for you, and only you!

Put on a robe, leave the glamour behind and have that extra coffee, enjoy the view, tune out, meditate, read that book, hit the gym, ride a bike, or do simply nothing at all and have some serious quiet time for some much needed self-reflection and contemplation.

Go ahead, do it, you deserve it!

Erotic Art, That’s What’s Sexy This Week

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Erotic art, that’s what sexy this week.

We all know I love art of multiple kinds, but one particular genre of the sexuality kind I truly love, is the erotic. I find it compelling, inviting, thought provoking, and downright sexy. To be inspired by erotic art is the very least I can write, because its a combination of all these elements that help to put a smile on a person’s, and their mind!

Artist’s depictions of erotism have been created for centuries, not just in nude human form, but in some of the unlikeliest. Items found in daily life, the sexy-this-week-erotic-art-melon-lovehome, the streets, renditions dreamt up in the minds of the ingenious. Inventive depictions using fruits and vegetables, found in architecture, items from the beach, or the clouds in the sky.

I think you get the point from my over zealous examples, but this is exactly what erotic art does for me, it stimulates me.

I definitely know I’m not the only one stimulated by erotic art, because if the line up down the street was any indication at this years Boobies and Wieners Erotic Art Show, then stimulation and titillation was what the throngs were in line for. If you’ve never been, then I suggest you keep an eye out for next year’s show. You’ll love the art, and the energy of the folks at the show. Giggling, chatting, sipping on a cocktail or two and possibly buying a piece of art to hang on a wall at home. The art is beautiful, erotic, sexy, and well worth the incentive.

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Erotic art isn’t for everyone, and I’m not quite sure why. I prefer to believe its the uncomfortable embarrassment and nothing else, proving my point about stimulation. I remember a school trip to Kleinburg Ontario, the home of the McMichael Art Collection dedicated to the Group of Seven. During this visit an exhibition of nudes from the masters of old were on display, but our classes were not allowed to see them. A decision made by one of our teachers, a rather outspoken religious woman, a decision that didn’t stop me. I snuck away from the group, eager to feast my eyes upon the lusty canvasses denied my eyes, and see what all the fuss was about.

Rounding the corner on the second floor of the gallery while my classmates were bombarded with boredom from the Group of Seven, I was stopped dead in my tracks. A woman in full recline on a red velvet chaise with creme coloured fabrics draping her shoulders, across her torso, trailing down to her feet and across. It was beautiful, the colours, the richness, the decadence, and the casual repose. This is what we were not allowed to see?

Lasting impressions, an imprint I am grateful for because I was caught not to long after for “straying” from the group.

Again, art is truly in the eye of the beholder, I just happen to like mine vivid, beautiful, sexy, and above all erotic. I like stimulation, don’t you?sexy-this-week-erotic-art-canova-nude-recline-pauline-bonaparte

O Force 2 Male Vibrator Review

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O Force 2 Male Vibrator

As many of you remember I was reviewing adult toys in the not so distant past, things changed and I took a break from it. Well I’m back, sort of!

“Therapeutical Aids,” that’s what I call these toys, because sex and orgasm is supposed to be therapeutic, no?

I’m starting back at it with the O Force 2, male masturbator that boasts “five different intensities to produce potent stimulation” provided by two separate motors, the major difference from it’s predecessor the O Force. On first glance, the packaging is simple, sleek, and without the tacky dated pictures of porn stars with that hilariously fake orgasm face. Instructions are printed on the outside of the box with illustrations detailing the 3 AA batteries it requires, the 5 speeds, and that it’s waterproof. Simple enough.review-O-force-2-male-masturbator-2

Now, these are the only instructions, because when you open it, there is nothing inside the box except the device supported between two plastic cradles. Easy to remove, it’s pretty much ready for action, all you need to do is twist it open and insert the batteries. Fairly easy, unless you have some sort of substance on your hands that makes your hands slide preventing you from getting a firm grip. It’s a tight twist, and you’ll need that firm grip to twist it open and my talcum powder fingers didn’t quite work.

Once I did get it open, the batteries inserted, I screwed it back together tight, but not before noticing the single and double slotted grooves on the length end opening, and the same single and double ridges on the cap’s opening end. This indicating that it goes back together in a very specific way. Take note of that, don’t try forcing it, you’ll end up breaking it, and it won’t work. Simple, you’ll see what I mean when you have one of your own in your hands.

review-O-force-2-male-masturbator-8Simply hold down the button on the end and voila, it’s on. It’s easy to push, and the low rumble the O Force 2 emits on the first setting is rather soft. Incrementally the other levels graduate in stages to a fifth level that is kind of pulsing, alive almost, a very interesting feeling on my fingers, and it’s strong. I can’t wait to hear what the opinions will be like when my guy has a go with it for it’s intended purpose.

It’s made of strong, stretchy silicone, with ridges on the outside for grip. These ridges don’t translate to the inner cavity, it’s completely smooth inside. I measured the depth as three inches and there is a pronounced ridge on the inside that houses one of the motors that oscillates between the second for that “alive” feeling. So for you big guys out there who think you are going to ram yourself full hilt into this, you can forget that.

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It’s designed to fit snug around those first three inches of your manhood and provide simulation to that portion of the penis. I have to admit it does feel very interesting inside, pleasurable to say the least, like a tight smooth glove. As for waterproof, well maybe, but water resistant for sure, and honestly, the price is pretty damn good for this kind of silicone and vibration.

You can take a look at the link below, but be sure catch me a bit later as I’ll be doing a follow up review, once my guy has had a chance to get down to business.

O Force 2 male vibrator

A Playful Flirt and a Giggle

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A playful flirt and a giggle, that’s what’s sexy this week.

Human interaction is super important, interaction of the positive kind. Forget the stalkers, sleazebags, and despicable low-lifes who truly only deserve a baseball bat upside the head for a little tune-up. No I’m talking about the attention from playful fun when one is out and about, that comes from innocent friendliness.

Innocent is the key word here, since many interpret these actions as seduction. Misinterpretations made by people who don’t have the skills to know the difference, as it shouldn’t take a rocket scientist to figure that out.

Over a coffee with my girlfriend Brit, a sassy buxom blonde, I sat and listened as she told me of her exploits while on her last holiday. Exploits I realized, are not far off from my own when I’m out in the world. What we also agreed on was the fun that came from a playful compliment, or a flirt. Fun that we both knew wasn’t going to go anywhere except validation as the people we are. Gregarious, life loving gals, who dress-up for every occasion including a trip to the laundry room!

I like a little validation as I’m someone who loves life, and lives it. Again knowing the difference between good and bad validation is something that needs to be taught, an element similar to what I wrote in my previous Sexy This Week, The Art of Casual Conversation with a Stranger . Knowing the difference between the two types, and knowing how to appreciate a good flirt and giggle isn’t hard. However making it hard for folks to be human and show appreciation, is taught and learned behaviour. Behaviour hot on the hysteria that everyone is out to get you and commit something heinous to your well being.

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Folks need to lighten up, loosen up and have fun again. Learn that a playful flirt and giggle can a go long way in making a person feel good, love life, and enjoy living it!

Schnuck Didit Designs for Face, Body and Bath

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Schnuck Didit Designs, for face, body and bath.

Another amazing product in my “hotbed” of talent from Vancouver, BC, the place I call home.

Mark and Andy of Schnuck Didit Designs are another of the underdogs that deserve a plate at the table and that I truly love! “Producing top quality, Canadian Made artisan soaps and grooming products”, this husband and husband team also make men’s underwear and bathing trunks, that not only look great, but fit like a glove for men of all shapes and sizes.

With the name Schnuck Didit, why wouldn’t I give it a try! A nickname I am told is for one of the guys, a name that aptly fits for their designs, did it, they did!

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I’ve been buying their soaps for a number of years now, after trying the minimally scented bars as a way to support the local hard working businesses I love to spend my dollars with.

““They strive to use “Made in Canada” whenever possible and focus on natural ingredients. This is an important consideration for everything they create. Their products are made in small batches from 100% natural ingredients and pure essential oils, without any of the laurel sulphates, dyes or perfumes. Their scents are unique and refreshing combinations that are masculine and never floral or overpowering.””

They make Bath Bombs, Face Scrubs, Massage Gels, Massage Oils, Toners, Reed Diffusers, Votive Candles, and Icy Muscle Rubs

Since both of these guys have long luxurious beards, and trust me I know, I’ve had my hands in those beards, it seemed only fitting that they would make a few conditioners for those facial locks. Beard Oils and Beard Butters, light and not to heavy, but certainly conditioning and controlling. Complimentary scents like, Birch Lime, Coffee Vanilla, Cypress, products they’ve also made available at the Burly Barber Inc

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Currently their fabric of choice of their underwear is a soft luxurious flannel, while soft on the goods, fitted at the legs but not too tight and a forgiving waistband that is structured to stay in place without drooping or dropping. Their swim trunks made with a blend of lycra spandex fit the way a good men’s bathing should, by holding everything in place, without sagging, and repel excess moisture when out of the water. Of course I love them, why wouldn’t I, they are sexy and cute, and we all know I love my men to look sexy and cute in great fitting swim trunks that aren’t to the knees!

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In my own personal shopping habits I usually buy 5 bars at a time that last me at least 6 months. A little trick I learned to lengthen the life span of a new bar of soap is to dry it out for a week or so before use and sit it on a ridged soap dish so it doesn’t rest in the soapy run off. Of course these bars don’t do that anyway, and prices won’t break the bank.

Yes their products are made with care, and ingredients include;

Coconut oil, Palm oil (ethically sourced) Cocoa butter, Sweet Almond oil, Avocado oil, grape seed oil, Hempseed oil, Sunflower oil, Essential oils, and cosmetic grade pigments.

They make good $# *!

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The Art of Casual Conversation with a Stranger, for Sexy This Week

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The art of casual conversation with a stranger, that’s what’s sexy this week.

Actually, it’s more like the lost art of casual conversation, and all a person needs to do is look around themselves once they’ve unglued their faces from their phones. Those little devices we’ve wired ourselves to the world with, the electronic annoyance that has become for many, a buffer from actual connection to the land of the living.

We see it everyday, folks walking into lamp posts, into traffic, and glaring down into their hands. Playing bullshit games at fevered pitches, games designed to control you from having any personal thought of your own, let alone observance of anything or anyone around you. All focused on texting nonsense to someone you’d rather not be. Yes this is bit of a personal rant, but it’s one many of us share. Look around you and see just what I am writing about here. On the bus, train, plane, street, waiting rooms, even some dinner tables folks with that zombie stare and glare.

I myself have taken to the pleasure of looking around myself when out and about. Being aware of what’s around me and who’s around me. Not just because of my personal three feet of space I covet, but because I want to take it all in and see what the real world has to offer. The trees, bees, plants and seas, mountains in the morning, to name a few, but another important element, the faces of those doing the same as I.

I’ve made it clear about how I feel about giving a stranger a compliment, or look them in the eyes when addressing someone. It’s about connection, human connection of a non-sexual kind, an uplifting positive connection, a good connection. It’s stimulating, pleasurable, eye opening, and a learning experience, feelings I can’t begin to describe. I knew when I sat to write this that there were folks who have studied and written papers on just how good it is to talk with strangers, I just didn’t know how many. Do a google search when you’re not out and about, you’ll see what I mean.

To me coffee shops, streets, busses, trains, planes, and the world of people was meant for living and communicating face to face, talking. Introducing sexy-this week- lost-art-casual-conversation-with-strangers-street-talkyourself, saying hello, paying a compliment, and hearing someone else’s story, to learn it, love it, and possibly live it.

I never understood why many favour teaching their children not to talk to strangers, rather than teach them how to talk to strangers, because it is an art. It’s an art that has been lost for some time and should be taught from an early age, and for those in dispute, the internet has already proven that thought. The nasty truth with all these trolls and predators on the loose behind their screens. Cowards actually, because the real of face to face communication is for the brave who choose to chance it.

The art of casual conversation with a stranger, that’s whats sexy this week.

 

Luc Latulippe, Designer, Illustrator, Animator

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Luc Latulippe, Designer, Illustrator, animator for the Wild and Wondrous side of this week’s Wacky Wednesday.

Ok, so how else was I going to get more of your attention if I didn’t make my feature image a little saucy? Luc Latulippe, artist extraordinaire, is another talented individual under the sheets of Vancouver’s hotbed of talent. In his words “starting out in animation 20 years ago,” he now also “works as a designer, illustrator and artist having contributed hundreds of illustrations to magazines, newspapers, and creative agencies across Canada, the US, Hong Kong, and parts of Europe.”

His work embodies humour for the modern adult using lines that are crisp and clean, with bold solid colours to produce eye catching results. Some would say quirky, others bizarre, but for all who appreciate his talent the end result is not only a new found appreciation, but a smile across a face.

To the untrained eye his images would appear simple, however they are anything but. Detailed, well thought out renderings. Illustrations that seem to draw on toys from a distant childhood; wind-up robots, ray-guns, Ker Plunk, even the memorable Rock-em Sock-em Robots with their bold colours and blocky design.

Comic like, another stye reminiscent of cartoons like Rocky and Bullwinkle, Natasha and Boris, even Mr Peabody & Sherman, a cartoon that ran from 1959-62. Most recently Luc worked on a reboot of the classic cartoon for Netflix, with the 4th and last season that began April 21st for it’s final run.

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Under those sheets this man likes a bit of naughty fun; within another style you can catch his dancing leather men, aptly named “dancing queen” up for grabs on his Porkpie Brand website where he markets more of his own designs for the fashionably addicted. Even I’m a victim of the addiction with my own Leather Daddy tank I used to proudly wear to the gym, unaware of the the one eyed trouser snake making it’s appearance off to the side of those leather chaps. It didn’t stop me wearing it to the gym, but with wear and tear, it became my fave nightgown that oversized tank.

There’s Space Girl, Hula Girl, Lol Kaiju, and Popper Pete.

His Gay Hankies reminding me of old ads for Amsterdam peep shows.

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His sassy art prints; big hairy chested men on the make are sexy fun.

I could go on, but if you’ve read my reviews before, you know I try to keep them short and sweet and let you decide.

 

 

 

Luc Latulippe, drawing for a living.

 

All images are copyright of the artist Luc Latulippe

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Cleavage and Plunging Décolletage, That’s What’s Sexy This Week.

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The sensuous line and curves the cleavage beholds of the plunging décollatage, that’s what’s sexy this week.

Wikipedia defines Cleavage as the exposed area between a woman’s breasts lying over the sternum, and refers only to what is visible with clothing (or dense, nontransparent body art) that includes a low-cut neckline, the décolletage. Yes, this a shameless ditty about the titty on display, because a little or a lot of objectification can go a long way.

The politically overcorrect usually don’t find my musings of Sexy this Week enlightening, because I certainly hear about it, that’s how I know. Ask me if I care? I don’t, because I’m busy looking at the cleavage of confident, secure women with their décolletage on proud display!

The phrase “tit’s up” according to urban dictionaries originally had a negative definition attached; dead mammals on their backs, tit’s up, a situation gone wrong. However I don’t think most of us have come to define it that way. Rather, a phrase of success!

Successful cleavage always catches the eyes of every beholder, it certainly gets my gaze! After the initial vision is enjoyed, I’m left taking in the total look from top to bottom, and back up again. The décolletage is sensual but above all commanding, and when worn well, I mean with confidence, the amplification is deafening.

Yes we all love the curves, the lines, the skin and comforting softness, maybe that’s what has everyone cautiously looking on, but the women wearing it also know the power a good cleavage can wield. Mothers, aunts, grandmas and a good friend, all know this. Most of us have had our heads and faces delicately smothered by a set of breasts in that nurturing comforting embrace. Hell even I find myself giving a good comforting smother to those in need. Feels good for both of us.

Psycho babble aside, and back to basic human instinct, it’s about the boobs! Women rival over a low neckline, drag queens shade and paint to perfection, and the men…..drool. Love em or leave em, I’m onboard. Tits up, guns out, shoulders back and heads held high……

In the words of author Judy Blume along with and some of my own non-shameless self presentations.

“We must, we must, we must increase our bust.”

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Manga Dolls by Youtsuki, for Wild and Wondrous of Wacky Wednesday

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Manga figures by Youtsuki are something to behold! We know I love my dolls especially when they are the ultra detailed fashionable type that Silkstone Barbie put’s out, or Marina Bychkova of Russia. To name a few.

However these dolls just quite literally came across my path during my travels in cyber space, and with no details about the artist/creator. Of course I had to dig, and dig deep, still coming up with virtually nothing except a book on WATTPAD that details each doll that’s been created, with a complete character profile. “Own Characters” by Youtsuki, it’s an interesting read, profiles that breathe new life into each and every one of them.

We know I love my fetish, and over on Flickr, Youtsuki has a detailed assortment on display for your eager eyes. From boudoir babes, what looks like the body of a stylized Vampirella, stylized french maids in varying poses, sexy nurses, and one of my own faves the office bitch, who could also pass for a college girl. Even the cute “rabit”. Most are labelled with numbers and symbols, but you’ll find their names listed in the book after some diligent cross checking.

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His and Her Pedicure for Sexy This Week

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There’s fun to be had in his and her pedicures. Couples spending time together, enjoying each other’s company, sharing a laugh, or an uncontrolled giggle from a foot massage, and the application of a daring shade of polish on his, and her toes. His and her pedicures that’s what sexy this week.

In today’s age, the so called “modern age” women have been getting pedicures since most of us can remember. However it is noted that it wasn’t until the year 2000 that the pedicure started to grow in popularity. Mostly amongst the women and a few daring men, brave enough to roll up their trousers and show just how much of a man he truly is by letting a complete stranger get to work prettying up those feet and toes.   

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