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As seen in Georgia Straight; Vancouver transgender inclusion report excludes transsexuals, activists say

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Trans and gender-variant inclusion working group criticized for recommendations

Sexy This Week; Flirting for Everyone

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Flirt; to behave as though sexually attracted to someone, but playfully rather than with serious intentions.

Whether for serious or playful intentions we all do it conscious of it or not, subtle variations in body language like the flicking of the hair, making eye contact, gentle touching, open stances, closeness to one another, laughing at jokes that just aren’t funny, teasing, you get the picture. Depending on how direct a person chooses to be, male or female, the intentions in the general sense of the (more…)

Tidbits; Stockings

Sometimes the summer months bum me out….sometimes! Mostly I miss wearing my stockings or fishnet pantyhose. They feel so great stretched across these legs, well ok, gams! I have legs that go on forever with a 33 inch inseam and let me tell you finding anything to cover them isn’t always easy! Aside from DIM, my new fave brand for sexy coverings happens to be FIORE. Made in Poland, they are structured, strong, and have a multitude of colours, styles, and patterns. Hence why I love wearing fashions create for legs, but not only for the variety, the look, feel, how sexy they make it all, especially (more…)

Sexy This Week; Exercise

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The onset of warmer weather is generally when you see an increase in the last minute efforts being made by many to get that beach ready body. The rise in the numbers of folks sweating it out at the gym or taking it to the streets reminiscent of the broken resolutions from the start of each new year. The ability to keep that pace going year round, day in and day out takes discipline, serious motivation, and a healthy heaping of determination.

Many are no angels when it comes to this and I am no stranger (more…)

Tidbits; The Allure of the Colour Red

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According to Wikipedia, “Red is the colour of blood, rubies and strawberries. It is the colour of the wavelength of light from approximately 620–740 nm on the electromagnetic spectrum. Next to orange at the end of the visible spectrum, red is commonly associated with danger, sacrifice, passion, fire, beauty, blood, anger, Christmas, socialism, communism, and in China and many other cultures, with happiness.” Above all it’s exciting, sexy, and turns people on!

Red for all intense purposes attracts attention especially in the context of sex. From lipstick to lingerie, cars to fruit. Just think of (more…)

Sexy This Week; Arteries

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They bulge, pulse, pop, and spread far and wide. Veins and arteries are the highways of the body that distribute the blood where it needs to go. For those of you that don’t know, veins for the most part carry the deoxygenated blood back to the heart, while arteries for their part, carry the oxygenated blood away from the heart supplying the needs of the body with this vital nutrient rich, sexy red liquid. There is a reason they use “blood red” to make descriptions about colour choices in design!

Arteries, the muscular of the two, are mostly what we see situated closer to the surface of the skin that pulse in front of our very own eyes in an effort to keep up with the daily demands of the human body. Blood that keeps the muscles functioning at their optimal levels functions needed for maintaining strength, vitality, and endurance. (more…)

Tidbits; The Power of the Sensual Oral Scent

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I always found myself envious of the olfactory power of cats, dogs, and pretty much every animal other than homosapiens. The power to smell! It is such a powerful tool in the animal kingdom and for some reason we humans don’t quite have that ability. Sure we can utilize so many of our other senses, but when it gets right down to it , we love the smell of sex, sexuality, and desire! The before, the after, the heightened pheromones that get our drives going, but then we don’t really smell pheromones do we? They just activate our pleasure centres on a subconscious level and kick us into overdrive. (more…)

Reviews; Sensuelle Point 20 Function

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I know that reviews can sometimes get lengthy, but I like to keep mine short and sweet. Really, who wants to read all that when you want to get down to it? Every now and then comes along a lovely little toy that pulls all the punches. The Sensuelle Point with 20 vibration functions does just that. Borrowing on elements from the We-Vibe’s Tango and  discontinued Salsa, the Sensuelle is a rechargeable, slightly longer, and thicker bullet that turns on by pushing the touch pad on the bottom between the two charging pins. This pad is also the multi function control to get you to the vibration pattern that your specific tastes desire. However you need to navigate through all the patterns to get to the one you prefer and it starts off at the beginning when it is turned off and then on again. Twice dipped in silicone this bullet sits in a flower shaped charging base with the adaptor plugged into the back. A red light indicates charging, green charged, (more…)

Reviews; Fun Factory’s Delight

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A sexy looking device made of 100% silicone and phthalate free plastic. The Delight is a rechargeable toy that employs the “click and charge” method to power up the onboard batteries. Simply put it is a magnet that attaches to the stainless steel points that are negatively and positively charged to make for a proper connection each time when charging. The sleek and curvy shape makes for efficient control whether your left or right handed and has a control pad that faces the user while in use with one finger control. The control pad is located at the top of the “royal curl” that is not only the grip, but allows for a gentle rocking motion with the index finger of either hand inserted through the opening. This most definitely makes it attractive for those with restricted use of their hands.

The shape consists of a vibrating tip for G-spot action and what I like to call, the “clitoral node” for simultaneous stimulation. (more…)

Tidbits; Gag Reflex for Beginners

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The gag reflex for beginners, it’s not as easy as you think!

I get asked this a lot, and god only knows why, but the question is how to control your gag reflex during oral play? Maybe it’s the aura I give off, but I want to remind you that I am human just like all of you and I encounter challenges just like anyone else! For now, let me share with you a little advice that you can take for whatever it’s worth.

We all like to think of ourselves as the best at providing oral pleasure and for those of you gifted, you’ve gotten past the gag reflex able to rise to the occasion like a true champion of deep throat diving. As you may, or may not know, it takes practice and sometimes a lot of practice, practice that’s not without it’s fair share of watery eyes, smeared makeup, and saliva you could fill a cup with. So if your cup runneth over, it’s nothing to be ashamed of, quite the contrary, you’re just fortunate enough to have salivary glands (more…)