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Sexy This Week; Sexuality

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We all have it, and we all present it, whether you like it or not, are conscious of it, or are in full on denial and trying very hard to suppress it. It comes naturally, and for those in control of it and enjoying it to their full advantage, it’s hot, empowering, and a turn on, sexuality and that’s what sexy this week.

As a woman who is transsexual, I am bombarded daily from, for lack of a better term, “nut-jobs” who are telling me that my presentation of my sexuality married with my sexual self, is a little overt and to tone it down a few notches. Well I have a few choice words for you folks;

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Tidbits: Old Age Sex and Sexuality

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It’s always ASTOUNDED me how the general populace for the most part think that sex and sexuality stops at a certain age or time in a person’s life, whether it be from meno/manopause, illness, age, death, etc. I could go on here, but I think you get the point. The truth is, it doesn’t, and doesn’t have to either if your libido is waning. Society seems to place that unnecessary belief or as I believe “burden,” on those who are still sexual or displaying their sexuality as though it was a bad thing to be shunned and abhorred by all.

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As Seen In; HUSH MAGAZINE The Crotch Watch with Video to Prove It! LOL

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The Crotch Watch with Video to Prove it!! LOL

 

You know what I am talking about: the coy glances to the crotches of a man that has caught your eye, quick darting glances

as often as a person blinks throughout the day. Its human nature and for those of us that find ourselves in a state of perpetual heat, these are the actions that happen. For most men, low cut waist lines that dip to extremes like the blouses of fashionably dressed women, is just not an option. Their package is their pride and joy, and putting the goods on display through pants that caress the bulges, carrying the meat and potatoes, housing the family jewels, is a learned art that takes time to develop. You have to know what fashion labels to wear with finesse, to wet that appetite of the viewer, a table to be set for a feast soon to be had.

With a multitude of fabric choices the guys are wrapping the goods in the trappings of the day. Faded in the right places, denim, has been a staple since Levis Strauss & Co burst onto the scene in 1853 style of work pants in 1873 to meet the needs of the growing North American industrial age. Denim fits good, is tough, and was never accepted into mainstream fashion as regular wear until the 1950’s when the rebels without causes and the emergence of rock & roll began appealing to the young. Look no further than the album cover for the Rolling Stones, Sticky Fingers, with a working zipper over a bigger-than-belief semi in tight fitting jeans. Makes you want to unzip it, right?

Crotch watching is fun, it’s hot, sexy, and done right, anyone can get away with it. Sunglasses are the obvious accoutrement to concealing those eyes that dart back and forth, up and down stealing glances of packed flesh, even the men of the business district all dressed up in tailored suits are not free from the glare of widening eyes hidden behind dark sunglasses. But when dark lenses are not available, there are other alternatives. Let’s consider a few more!

Magazines and newspapers as most know, certainly help with ocular concealment, and depending on the dimensions of that reading material held high, hide a full face and devious eyes. Gently fold down the corner of that paper shield to reveal a full landscape and with the flick of a finger, once again hidden from view. All it takes is a trip to the magazine shop for a look at the naughty newspaper readers pretending to absorb the material in hand. Readers facing the racks of mags with eyeballs in full movement you could mistake them for pool balls bouncing off the sides of the table at the local snooker tournament.

The brim of a hat, cocked to the side, shading the upper part of a face hoping to sneak a peak of the next snack pack walking by. Think of that when buying your next fashion accessory, it’s not just for your head on a bad hair day!

These tips are not just for the casual onlooker. Here’s a look at some of the most crotch-friendly vocations that’ll help you get your look on while making bank.

Going back to the topic of hair, all hairstylists have this firmly in hand, or shall I say view. Seating a client down, in a “semi” reclined position for a thorough scalp massage at the shampoo basin usually gets things stirring! Most men close their eyes for a relaxing scrub in the grip of strong hands, a time when curious stylists and onlookers have free reign to gawk at spread legged crotches generally without fear of getting caught. Think about that the next time you’re off for some trim!

Folks in the service industry know this one all to well, as they are generally used to getting cruised themselves. Servers have mastered the art of the “crotch watch” long ago. Hovering over patrons as the menu is read, staring straight through open arms, hands firmly grasped on the edges of a menu, straight through and down to a crotch seated directly below, Servers with nothing else to do but patiently wait for that menu choice.

Airline attendants have what they call “cabin check”, a systematic observance of the cabin to make sure all is secure. A trip up and down the aisles, tight aisles, looking down, down at raised tables, bags stowed underneath the seat in front or placed neatly in the overhead compartments. With one final check to see if the seatbelt is securely in place over tightly and safely secured bags, in prep, for take-off!

Busted; getting caught while in the transfixed glare of bouncing balls that usually results in a little warmth, flushed colour, and the crack of a smile. Really though, why care? Own it, have fun with it, playful stares and glares never hurt anyone except to help elevate a fragile or bruised ego, never knowing what the end result will be.

A word of advice? Just don’t perv out on it, cause there’s also an art to knowing when to stop. Creepy is creepy, and trust me, you’ll find that out soon enough!

Don’t believe me? Have a look at what I found!

Words by | Velvet Steele

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This article was accomplished by the author in the author’s personal capacity. HUSH Magazine is a place of conversation and platform for independent voices. The opinions expressed in this article are the author’s own and do not necessarily reflect the view of HUSH Magazine.

 

As Seen In: ZoomerSingles, Naughty But Nice Is Never Taboo: Hottest Five Trends In Sex

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Originally Printed in ZoomerSingles.
by; April Lewis aka Lovingly Arrogant
As you may recall in my recent letter to Santa, I said I would rather be naughty than nice. Luckily, I found a way to be both.
I headed to the Taboo…Naughty but Nice Sex Show to check out the latest in Boomer carnal pleasures.
One Saturday night not too long ago I headed downtown to the Taboo…Naughty but Nice Sex Show to check out the latest in Boomer carnal pleasures. The show advertises (more…)

Tidbits; Opinion: Focus on ‘high-risk lifestyle’ shifts blame from violent perpetrators to their victims

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Here is an opinion article courtesy of the folks at Living in Community by Tricia barnes; a non-profit I am working with here in Vancouver on issues of sex work. This article details the recent murder of two sex workers found murdered in New Westminster and the continued stigmas that the media and other organizations continually place on one of the oldest professions. Good job ladies!

“In separate incidents on Aug. 12 and Aug. 25, two women were found dead in their apartments in the same New Westminster building. Both women were believed to have worked as escorts

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