A playful flirt and a giggle, that’s what’s sexy this week.
Human interaction is super important, interaction of the positive kind. Forget the stalkers, sleazebags, and despicable low-lifes who truly only deserve a baseball bat upside the head for a little tune-up. No I’m talking about the attention from playful fun when one is out and about, that comes from innocent friendliness.
Innocent is the key word here, since many interpret these actions as seduction. Misinterpretations made by people who don’t have the skills to know the difference, as it shouldn’t take a rocket scientist to figure that out.
Over a coffee with my girlfriend Brit, a sassy buxom blonde, I sat and listened as she told me of her exploits while on her last holiday. Exploits I realized, are not far off from my own when I’m out in the world. What we also agreed on was the fun that came from a playful compliment, or a flirt. Fun that we both knew wasn’t going to go anywhere except validation as the people we are. Gregarious, life loving gals, who dress-up for every occasion including a trip to the laundry room!
I like a little validation as I’m someone who loves life, and lives it. Again knowing the difference between good and bad validation is something that needs to be taught, an element similar to what I wrote in my previous Sexy This Week, The Art of Casual Conversation with a Stranger . Knowing the difference between the two types, and knowing how to appreciate a good flirt and giggle isn’t hard. However making it hard for folks to be human and show appreciation, is taught and learned behaviour. Behaviour hot on the hysteria that everyone is out to get you and commit something heinous to your well being.
Folks need to lighten up, loosen up and have fun again. Learn that a playful flirt and giggle can a go long way in making a person feel good, love life, and enjoy living it!