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Tidbits: Sex, Drugs, and……

sex and drugs

I can’t stress enough how I am definitely no angel, never have been, and probably never will be, but as I move on in life I seriously find myself loving drug free sex. As I mentioned in Sexy This Week # 34. It has so many perks, and I for one can’t tell you enough of how I feel I about that. Ok I do love a good glass of wine, or two in the lead up to a good romp, but the prolonged sloppiness that comes from illicit substances that have gone well beyond their due date leaves me with the feeling it is something to be desired, and I am not desiring that.

I like to enjoy the time with quality over quantity, so I am able to have more throughout the day or go again and again without the fight to have the ultimate orgasm that just ends in frustration. Not to mention the angst a partner, or two may be going through long after your done and trying to sleep or come down.

Frustration that can be coercive, sad, humiliating, annoying, or end up in a seriously bad situation. Let’s remind ourselves that feelings change when you are on another plain, and change they can, and very rapidly.

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Sexy This Week; Sex, Clean & Sober

stw drugs & alcohol

Let me start off by pointing out that I am no angel! Especially when it comes to having had my fair share of mind and body altering substances in the context of being social, or for extended periods of “boot knocking action”, I am NO angel! However in the past few years, lets say five for the sake of argument, I’ve been seeing and hearing a shift from folks regarding the type of sex they are having. Sex that I am indulging in as well, sex that is clean & sober, and that’s what’s sexy this week.

Indulging in the past-time usage of mind and body altering substances for extended periods of sexual activity is something stw sweaty sexdone by many. (more…)