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Tidbits; Transgender Day Of Remembrance TDOR

TDOR in pink

As much as I like to think I am, I’M NOT! I am not immune to the hate that fills those who feel it their right to lash out and hurt those of us on this planet that are different. Those who have chosen to become happy in our own skin. Those like me!

I sit here writing this as a woman who is post-op transsexual having gone through all the procedures necessary for me to become happy. I am a woman inside and out, a woman now comfortable in my own skin, looking and feeling great, loving life, the liberties I fought hard for, and sex, yes sex! I love it, and so do the partners that have, and had the pleasure to share it with me.

I guess you could say I made up for lost time, and well, still am.

I am also a woman that sits here writing this with the memories of the stabbings I have endured, the knife slashes, the beer bottle wounds from being bashed, scars where chunks of flesh have been torn out by teeth from my attackers, the broken bones long since healed that still ache, areas on my head where the hair doesn’t grow back, (more…)

WACKY WEDNESDAYS: Vacuuming My Anus

fart sign

We all fuck up now and then, some more than others leaving a large part of the population scratching their heads in disbelief as to the frequency for that part of the populace. I’ve done it, I am sure many of my readers have, but with the unique ability to laugh off the idiocy of the situation, by owning it, I say!

A unique little story came my way involving the gaseous passing we all have from our anus, farts. Yes farts, they can smell downright nasty especially the silent but deadly ones, be trumpet loud, or high pitched like the squeak of a mouse. They are endless in the types and just as endless in the descriptives we use for them, but they make us laugh. The story I am going to reference deals strictly with the smell factor and the unique, if not humorous way of dealing with the aroma and end result. (more…)

WACKY WEDNESDAYS: Periodic Table of Kink

Periodic Table of Kink -1800

I have always said that there was more to it than just a simple liking for it! Kink for many, is in their genes, their well-being, their whole make-up. You are truly born with it. However there has been no real way to diagnose it from a scientific stand point, and I am not sure there ever will be. There will always be the nay-sayers, as there are with those who continue to dispute that being born gay was and is a choice, and don’t get me going on that! The idiots!

Up until now nothing has been presented in a slightly fun, or slightly scientific manner until the folks at UBERKINKY came (more…)

TIDBITS: Debunking 6 Myths About People in the Sex Industry

coffee & curlers

This article first appeared in Everyday Feminism and embellished with pictures to fit the this blog.

Debunking 6 Myths about People in the Sex Industry

November 5, 2014 by Laura Kacere and Sandra Kim

They navigate and move between the spaces of visibility and invisibility, criminal and citizen, safety and danger, exploitation and empowerment.

People engaged in the commercial sex industry are constantly navigating these margins.

Amidst stigma and invisibility, they suffer high rates of violence and discrimination, and yet are too often left out of the conversation around violence against women. (more…)

WACKY WEDNESDAYS; Inflatable Love

Blow up ewe
Welcome to my newest addition, WACKY WEDNESDAYS, a collection of the strange I have found from many locations all over, presented here for you to learn and develop your own opinions from, be they funny or not. Trust me I take them with a grain of salt, and a healthy heaping of laughter!
We’ve all read and possibly seen the new love interests taking the lonely, and not so lonely by storm, inflatable love toys.  I have my opinions on the subject and mostly I see it as a serious bit of fun, one that I don’t take to seriously and certainly not in the context of love. Hell I even want a room full of them blown up to their full glory so I can bounce on them like a kid in room full of balls or balloons void of the urine. However, my intentions my be construed as a little more creepy, as I do LOVE to provoke and push buttons as a Domina with a sly sense of cruelty. Why wouldn’t I want to lock someone in that room, bound, gagged, (more…)

Lets Not Import Canada’s Sex Work Bill

Lets Not Import Canada’s Sex Work Bill

Canada’s new proposals criminalize johns, while decriminalizing those engaged in prostitution.

  • PRINT
  • Pace Society/TwitterThough it has received little coverage in American media, Canada has spent the past 10 months in an intense debate about its prostitution laws. Last December, the nation’s Supreme Court struck down basically all anti-prostitution laws on the grounds that they violated Canada’s Constitutional Charter of Rights and Freedoms. The elimination of prostitution laws will go into effect this December, and the Conservative Canadian government has been rushing to get a replacement in place that will satisfy the Supreme Court. (more…)

Humans having non-human sex.

Humans having non-human sex.

Originally from College Humor:

You just never know, but frankly the way I have it, is pretty non-human in itself sometimes! HAVE A LOOK, I’M NOT KIDDING! 😉

MWAH!! (more…)

Tidbits; Think Of The Children

kids looking down panties

Conversations around sex and sex work have always been a challenge, but especially so, when children are around. Folks seem so conflicted when it comes to any form of education, advocacy, images, representations or even depictions, implied or not. Now me as the eternal devil’s advocate I am always asking why, what’s this conflict, where does it come from? The reasons are endless, fortunately for me, I’m in social circles that have a very healthy outlook on sex, sex of any kind, or anything in general to do with it. We talk about, look at it, have it, express it, and of course educate the young around us. No we’re not having it front of them, or producing images, writings, or other as they’ll find it on their own, the curious always do, but those I know, definitely don’t shy away from it.

So, let’s think of children! Does that mean we should keep them forever sheltered about what is going in the world? The world of our physiological needs, biological needs? Needs for the most part that are beyond our control. (more…)

Morning Erection

nocturnal erections

For those of us that like penis, morning erections (actually called Nocturnal Erections) is something we’ve all dealt with. The half groggy pokey pokey in the backside with the hopeful intention of slipping it in somewhere for an even better ride even if it is during casual spooning at the crack of dawn. There is a scientific reason they happen, as you’ll read in the explanation below written by Justine Alford, supplied by UBC Psych 350A, a compelling read that tells it from physiological standpoint, and is spot on.

As daunting as they may seem, these morning erections, they are part of the physical make-up of the male, enjoyed, sometimes irritating, (more…)

JUST SO YOU KNOW!!!

strictly pink

I am not just here on the internet and other locations strictly for business purposes and for helping others in their quest for advancement within their business, life, etc,  if, that is, I can be of assistance.

I love getting to know people, helping folks, making friends, associates, business connections, networking. As I say on my podcast TRANSISTER (in development for the relaunch) hopefully you’ll listen, learn and laugh! I truly mean that!

Kindness and interest in getting to know people is a virtue, and friending someone on a social site of their choice is also their choice, one I welcome, most of the time.

I will however, let you know if I am interested in you or not, if your intentions are other than getting to know me. (more…)

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