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Tidbits; The Power of the Sensual Oral Scent

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I always found myself envious of the olfactory power of cats, dogs, and pretty much every animal other than homosapiens. The power to smell! It is such a powerful tool in the animal kingdom and for some reason we humans don’t quite have that ability. Sure we can utilize so many of our other senses, but when it gets right down to it , we love the smell of sex, sexuality, and desire! The before, the after, the heightened pheromones that get our drives going, but then we don’t really smell pheromones do we? They just activate our pleasure centres on a subconscious level and kick us into overdrive. (more…)

Reviews; Sensuelle Point 20 Function

Sensuelle Point

I know that reviews can sometimes get lengthy, but I like to keep mine short and sweet. Really, who wants to read all that when you want to get down to it? Every now and then comes along a lovely little toy that pulls all the punches. The Sensuelle Point with 20 vibration functions does just that. Borrowing on elements from the We-Vibe’s Tango and  discontinued Salsa, the Sensuelle is a rechargeable, slightly longer, and thicker bullet that turns on by pushing the touch pad on the bottom between the two charging pins. This pad is also the multi function control to get you to the vibration pattern that your specific tastes desire. However you need to navigate through all the patterns to get to the one you prefer and it starts off at the beginning when it is turned off and then on again. Twice dipped in silicone this bullet sits in a flower shaped charging base with the adaptor plugged into the back. A red light indicates charging, green charged, (more…)

Reviews; Fun Factory’s Delight

Delight

A sexy looking device made of 100% silicone and phthalate free plastic. The Delight is a rechargeable toy that employs the “click and charge” method to power up the onboard batteries. Simply put it is a magnet that attaches to the stainless steel points that are negatively and positively charged to make for a proper connection each time when charging. The sleek and curvy shape makes for efficient control whether your left or right handed and has a control pad that faces the user while in use with one finger control. The control pad is located at the top of the “royal curl” that is not only the grip, but allows for a gentle rocking motion with the index finger of either hand inserted through the opening. This most definitely makes it attractive for those with restricted use of their hands.

The shape consists of a vibrating tip for G-spot action and what I like to call, the “clitoral node” for simultaneous stimulation. (more…)

Tidbits; Gag Reflex for Beginners

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I get asked this a lot, and god only knows why, but the question is how to control your gag reflex during oral play? Maybe it’s the aura I give off, but I want to remind you that I am human just like all of you and I encounter challenges just like anyone else! For now, let me share with you a little advice that you can take for whatever it’s worth.

We all like to think of ourselves as the best at providing oral pleasure and for those of you gifted, you’ve gotten past the gag reflex able to rise to the occasion like a true champion of deep throat diving. As you may, or may not know, it takes practice and sometimes a lot of practice, practice that’s not without it’s fair share of watery eyes, smeared makeup, and saliva you could fill a cup with. So if your cup runneth over, it’s nothing to be ashamed of, quite the contrary, you’re just fortunate enough to have salivary glands (more…)

As Seen In; Daily Xtra, Stop Criminalizing Sex Work, Vancouver Sex Workers Say

Published Tue, Mar 4, 2014 8:25 pm EST

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Tidbits; Sexual Consent

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Recently my personal trainer had the pleasure of beating me up, well I like to think he was beating me up but the truth is he was putting me through it after an almost two year hiatus on the part of both of us. He knows what I am all about and get up to in my spare time, so naturally we share stories and opinions with each other. Only this time was a bit different, not because of anything special, but more because of what he asked me, “so what’s sexy this week?” To be honest, the question made me think because I hadn’t actually given it any thought. I am so used to running around being inspired by pretty much any, and everything that comes across my path, but this week nothing had done that….yet!

At the gym the next day (cause I am obsessive compulsive) while reading the local edition of Vancouver 24 hrs, in an article about sexual consent, it occurred to me that what is sexy this week IS consensual sex! The article talked of pink packages being handed out at Simon Fraser University by the Women’s Centre aptly called the “Consent Toolbox”. The idea is to spread (more…)

As Seen In HUSH Magazine; High Rise Voyeurs and Exhibitionists

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As we all know the central core of Vancouver is jam packed with high-rise buildings to the point of being known as the most densely populated downtown in all of North America. It goes without saying that “things” get seen and “things” get done. The things I am talking about are sex, and lots of it! Downtown dwellers are doing it from the ground floor and up, all the way to the rooftop (and that equates to a lot of window space). I consider these as stages of the theatres in the sky of each and every building visible on the city skyline. Red-hot stages displaying the actions of the adventurous that have chosen not (more…)

Tidbits; Telephone Talk

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How do you screen your clients? How do you know they are legit? How do you know you’ll be safe? Questions that always seemed to be asked of me when providing the services of a Pro-Domina was my main stay.

It wasn’t old hat from the get go, but let’s just say that it certainly didn’t take long! In the early days of using the phone, long before pagers and cell phones, yes I am going back a bit, security was of the utmost of importance. It wasn’t because I was reading horror stories of folks going missing because of sex work, it was because it made COMMON SENSE! (more…)

Tidbits; The Burning Realities; Allergies To Your Sextoys, Lotions, & Potions

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So you think your some sort of super hero able to take on any and all things that come your way? Guess again! you might think you are strong and virile healthy as a horse, but the burning reality is that we are all becoming increasingly sensitive to all sorts of things. From food, to scents, lotions, potions, lubes. Cosmetics, clothes, fabrics, fibres and skins, right down to your darling sex toys! Allergic sensitivities are popping all over the place, environmental allergies, compound allergies, chemical allergies, household dust, mould, and dirt.

In the quest to get products to the masses at alarming rates that would rival the speed of light, companies will do almost whatever it takes to produce, market, ship and sell it! How do they do that you may find yourself asking? (more…)

Podcasts; CKNW Sunday Night Sex Show

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Listen in, you’ll hear me on the last 10 minutes, but the whole thing is GREAT talk with Maureen McGrath. You can find more of the Sunday Night Sex Show here

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