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Beautifully Manicured Sexy Nails for Sexy This Week

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Beautifully manicured sexy nails, that’s what sexy this week. Many of us remember being told  “don’t bite your nails” which doesn’t stop some folks from gnawing away, while others take great care to file, buff, extend and polish the horn-like envelope that cover the tips of fingers and toes. Beautifully, painstakingly painted, and well cared for to finish off the fingers and toes, beautifully manicured nails, that is what’s sexy this week.

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For millennia, well manicured nails have been much coveted, a status symbol of days gone by that have attracted the attention of all sexes. Young or old are drawn to looking at the finishes that adorn the tips. Bright shiny, or matte colours, patterns, nail art and little sculptures, even jewelled adornment now add to the allure of a finished nail.

Finished nails that further refine the hand, slenderizing and elongating chubby fingers or help give the illusion of smoothing out bony and wrinkly knuckles. Shapes of all kinds to match a genre or particular look. Pointed daggers, or soft almond, rounded or tapered square, long, short, any length for the desires of the wearers.

stw-beautifully-manicured-sexy-nails-white-black-polka-dotsNatural nail, acrylic, acrylic with tip, gel or gel overlay, to name a few. The choices are endless to match limitless personalities, long luscious nails to grip a glass, caress a face or scratch a back. Long luscious nails in a tight firm grip……………       

Good Male Hygiene for This Weeks Tidbits

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Good male hygiene, thats what it’s about! Crotch Rot, trouser funk, dick or head cheese, seem to be hot topics of conversation these days amongst the men and their partners. I must say, I’m not sure what the cause of the frank conversation is all about, but I’m all for it and why not. The women are already inundated with ads about products that help to keep things fresh in the panties, so why not the men?

Merritt k makes a compelling presentation in her article, On Smelly Dicks, worth the read, and advice to be taken! 

Ok, so maybe personal hygiene sprays, lotions, potions, and powders are not the answer, just a good washing. It does however, beg the question why some folks just don’t know what personal hygiene is? Bathing, the process of washing the body with a fluid, usually water or an aqueous solution, or the immersion of the body in water. Not to be confused with religious ritual, therapeutic purposes, or sun and sea bathing. I’m talking about cleaning yourself!tidbits-good-male-hygiene-down-there-repair

Why is it important to bathe? If it’s not that obvious to the oblivious, let’s try the maintenance of good health, warding off infections, illnesses, or ailments. Your cleanliness is also good for your self-confidence, physical and emotional well-being, next to godliness. The main purpose; TO REMOVE DIRT AND ODOURS!

I’ll admit I love the sex smell of the human body. However, having my olfactory receptors blasted with the foul funk of someone’s nether regions before they make it through the door is not my idea of a turn on.

It’s no secret that I spent a good portion my adult years as a pro-domme, and since people are sharing as of late, let me share with you a little story of my own.

CBT is not a particularly common interest for the masochistically inclined, so when I get calls requesting this particular service; I get a little excited.

All geared up, the candles were lit, music on, and my hands encased in my favourite worn and weathered cracked leather gloves. Perfect for scraping the underside of a set of nuts in need of a rigorous scratching.

So dude shows up, well dressed I might add, and as agreed, he keeps his business suit on. I get to work tying him down, immobilizing him and verbally humiliating him on how terrible of a finance banker he is, throwing whatever mind fuckery his way I can.

Whack, and I let him have it with a sharp calculated slap between the legs, not to hard, none to soft, enough to feel it through all the layers of clothes he has in. With the smack down over, it’s on to the next stage of rough play with a bit of sandpapering, some ball bondage and a little of what I call “pull the peen”.

tidbits-good-male-hygiene-Sweaty-ballsIt wasn’t long after I began the process of exposing the meat and potatoes that I was greeted with the an all to unpleasant odour of cheese shop proportions. With my nose hairs curling, and my breath held tight, it was all I could do to stop my eyes from watering. This guy was conducting an experiment on producing his own head cheese, or so I thought. For someone who had impeccable hygiene everywhere else, his dick was clearly a part of his body he forgot.

So…….I got to work.

What was to be a simple case of slap and tickle with leather gloves, was now going to be a scrub down of epic proportions with the soapy water, nail brush and rubber gloves. Hey, it was to be a session of CBT, so why not throw a variation onto an old theme?

Get to work I did! I pulled back that skin, and peeled off the layers of cheese, using my rubber covered porno nails to pick and pull at the smegma covered glans, taking great care and time to work it all loose. With all that pasteurization gone, I got to the business of giving that sausage a good scrub with the brush. Back and forth, rinsing in hot soapy water before getting back to scraping and scrubbing in my pink Rubbermaid gloves all to avoid getting dick pan hands and the possibility of after smell.

Lost in thought of the good job I was doing, bringing back the pink to that pork sword, I almost completely forgot, I had a client under my housecleaning. I only became aware because of the last little whelp that squeaked out the side of that ball gag I had wedged in his mouth. A whelp that on second thought, sounded more like the squeal of a puppy having had enough of mom’s tender loving care.tidbits-good-male-hygiene-scrub-brush

I wiped off the remaining soap to more whines and squeals and gently powdered the now rosy appendage staring back at me. I untied dude, let him do up his pants and adjust his jacket and instructed him in a firm, yet soft voice before leaving, to “never to come to another session without making sure he was properly washed.”

I never could figure out why I never saw him again, and that was ok, at least now he’ll know what good hygiene is all about.

     

Latex Art, Bold and Beautiful for this Week’s Wacky Wednesday

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Latex art that’s bold and beautiful! As a fetishist, I scour the internet for all kinds of lovely jewels and this pretty lady, Michelle Mildenhall is a UK artist with a very unique “pop art style,” unique because it’s created using latex.

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Some folks would label her work as provocative, for me I see it as progressive, utilizing a substance so coveted for BDSM fashions and pervery it was just a matter of time to see it used to create visual delights to be hung on any connoisseur’s walls.

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With her work reminiscent of the late Andy Warhol, it’s bold, blunt and distinctive, casually presenting themes that explore BDSM and what would be construed as deviant sexuality by the mainstream masses. Casual presentations that include depictions of a devious smiling Queen Elizabeth and a smug “Tsarina” Valdimir Putin looking like they are ready for action. There’s even the Iron Lady herself Margaret Thatcher looking oh so fetching, and number of other celebrities you’ll be sure to recognize.

Consensual Kink is her latest exhibition which runs two weeks from the end of September at the Lilford Gallery in the heart of Folkestone’s artist quarter at Georges House, 8 The Old High Street, Folkestone CT20 1RL. Gallery opening hours are 10am-5pm.wacky-wednesday-michelle-mildenhall-art

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A Change of Seasons for Sexy This Week

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A change of seasons, that’s what sexy this week!  I truly believe I’m very fortunate living where I do in the world. Everyone living here has the pleasure of four distinct weather changes. We have our spring, summer, fall, and winter. Seasons that bring with them a change in air temperature, pressure, sun, rain, plant life; seasons very distinct and unique and full of attitude. Seasons much needed for change to take place and keep the cycle of life going, to hibernate, recharge, re-stimulate, be re-born so to speak.

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Ontario, where my family settled after immigrating to Canada is a province that truly has a set of very distinct seasons. Autumns of fire in patches of yellow, orange and red, bright vivid colours across a painted landscape. A rich visual delight, admired by many on long trips to the north. A short display before turning brown and crumbling to dust as the leaves fall to the ground.

Winters white and cold, and snow sparkling like diamonds when the moon hits it just right. Cold air that kisses a face peeking out from a heavily clothed body braving the cold to play in the snow, or glideacross sheets of ice. Temperatures just right for the fashion addicted to layer upon layer, clothes they don’t have the opportunity to wear the rest of the year. Clothes none the less they just had to have.

sexy-this-week-a-change-of-seasons-springtimeSpringtime when the temperature rises melting ice and snow.  Running waters soaking into the softening ground to nourish and stimulate the sleeping roots of flowers and trees, to spring forth and grow anew. Warmth that awaken slumbering creatures deep in hibernation, that now lumber out of dens and burrows to seek out food and replenish fat stores long since depleted.

Summers in full bloom, explosions of colour, clear blue skies, elevated temperatures both in the air, and of the body. Activity abounds in all aspects of life, before the autumn creeps back to start the process all over again. A continuous cycle of life, that whatever the season, the whole year of change most definitely stimulates me.sexy-this-week-a-change-of-seasons-summer

I do have my favourite seasons, and like all life on the planet, I need my downtime to recharge and be re-stimulated. I cannot take the constant of one over another, I burn out and whither, and if one thing about being brought up in Ontario has taught me is an overwhelming appreciation of the beauty in the changing seasons. 

Change is good!

Hosiery, The Perfect Accessory For All Legs

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As the temperature cools with the summer nearing it’s end, and bare legs still fresh in our minds, it’s difficult to muster up the desire to cover up those gams with clothes of some kind. 

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The cuffs and hemlines that rose, now get lower, but an age old solution to that situation that’s not only practical, but down right sexy, is hosiery, the perfect accessory for all legs, that’s what sexy this week.

Choosing to wear stockings, stay-ups, pantyhose or leggings is the decision of the wearer, but maybe, just maybe, I can help convince you to put on a pair with a few descriptives of my own.

Did I say I liked to wear hosiery? Well I do, and I have quite the collection of my own silky smooth soft coverings. I love my stockings held up with a garter belt, but I also love my stay-ups for days when I’m going commando under a skirt or dress. Or try a pair of pantyhose that stretch across a firm ass as the best shapely adornment possible for those that want to caress, but the sign says “don’t touch!”

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Body Dysmorphia For This Weeks Tidbits

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Recently I was accused of having body dysmorphia “issues”. 

Wikipedia classifies Body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) is a mental disorder characterized by an obsessive preoccupation that some aspect of one’s own appearance is severely flawed and warrants exceptional measures to hide or fix it.[1] In BDD’s delusional variant, the flaw is imagined.[2] If the flaw is actual, its importance is severely exaggerated.[2] Either way, one’s thoughts about it are pervasive and intrusive, occupying up to several hours a day.

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and the definition goes on……..

Let’s just say that I thought the statement was somewhat humorous, and a completely stupid accusation!

For those that know me, and those that know me well that the statement is so far from the truth I just don’t know where to begin refuting it, so much so that I won’t. What strikes me is the need for these types of individuals to get in my face and declare they know me better than my own self. If we look at Wikipedia’s definition closely and that of other classifications, it would suggest that I spend hours a day occupying my time over what I construe as flaws, again I cannot begin to start where this is so wrong!

tidbits-body-dysmorphia-3My day starts by getting up, having breakfast, heading to the gym, and then getting dressed to tackle the rest. I knew and know what I didn’t like about myself, and I got on with correcting those issues, not obsessing to the point of being able to function. I do my maintenance regimes, eat right, take care of of my health, and if need be, have a few “treatments” here and there. I’ve worked at my appearance, and I’m rather proud of it! I made the decisions, I did the work, did what I wanted, and at 52 I think I’ve got it down pat for what the rest of what my life looks like.

What I do want to present here is the general tone and attitude of the individual that made the statement to me, and I’m going to say this, an attitude of jealousy and laziness. In this instance I considered the source, and it wasn’t pretty! Call me shallow, call me esoteric, call me a bitch, but honey, effort is required by everyone to look how you want! Again taking the words of Helena Rubinstein; “There are no ugly women, just lazy ones!” and how right she was. This statement so profound, even applies to the men out there.

Everyone I know does something to themselves for their own particular reasons, and that’s what makes them individuals, unique and beautiful unto themselves, which is for the most part why I LOVE all the people I know.

People getting tattooed, pierced, branded, augmented, reduced, cosmetically treated, working out at the gym, hair done, make-up used, clothes bought, it all plays into appearances, appearances I relish and support.

It made me wonder, does this individual say anything to those outside of my world, the world of the gender variant, transgender, transsexual, non-binary groupings? For some reason I believe they don’t, that would be to easy, and it would play on stereotyping, and isn’t that what this person just did to me? Me as a woman with a transsexual medical history, I was just stereotyped for wanting to look a certain way?

I look how I crafted myself, no one told me how to look or be, and in the end the statement made me laugh to myself and think, quite frankly, go fuck yourself! I’m happy with what I’m doing and where I’m going and no one will tell me different.tidbits-body-dysmorphia-4

How’s that for a little rant?

High-Tide Heels to Keep Your Feet Dry for Wacky Wednesday

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So high-tide has overlfowed, and poor Melania Trump, getting picked on for wearing heels to view the devastation hurricane Harvey has left in it’s wake. First off I’m not undermining the issue of the devastation left behind, devastation that we can compare to the wild fires we’re experiencing here in British Columbia, Canada. It’s horrible and a serious wake up call, and to those who keep believing  global warming doesn’t exist, give your idiot brains a shake!

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First off we don’t know whey she wore them, and quiet frankly who cares! She’s gorgeous and wears it well, but maybe, just maybe she is wearing shoes like that because she has to? Being married to the man who once was her prince charming, now the world buffoon, may come with a set of rules. He has already proven himself as the misogynist he is by bellowing “grab her in the pussy” and complimenting the president of France’s wife Brigitte Macron on how good she looks as the first things out of his mouth. So much depth, engaging, and intelligent conversation Donald Trump is capable of.

Maybe Melania has to wear them, maybe she was the victim of a cruel joke by his staff, maybe she just didn’t get the memo, or maybe she wore them to look fabulous next to him. It doesn’t take much to do that with a comb-over like that! Either way she did and let’s get over it, because I have found the best option for her for next time it should happen again.

I came across these lovelies in my internet travels, Tide High Heels, originally designed and created by Belgian artist Paul Schietekat for an exhibition in 2006. First published in 2009 in The Telegraph, it appears that these won’t be making any splash at the local shoe stores anytime soon.

I don’t get why, they are colourful, water proof and resistant, great for mobility on land and in the water, and I agree, look so much better 

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than a pair of flip flops.

Just think of the possibilities folks, dinner and dancing, the opera, the theatre, your next beach side vacation! I’m all for it, and would love a snappy pair to hit the fashion shows of Europe.

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Beach Ready Bodies at Anytime, That’s What’s Sexy This Week

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The lead up to the summer each and every year is full of folks opting for the last minute fix to get that media manipulated ideal of the beach ready body. People falling into the brain washing of a quick solution, and buying that quick fix to get lean and muscled, god-like for what the mental conditioning has led them to believe. On the flipside there are those who never fall into that expertly crafted trap, those who are safe and secure in the knowledge they are happy with the body they currently have, or even care for that matter. A body that is not part of the “media manipulated ideal” and ready to hit the beach at any time. Bodies not controlled by the mainstream ideal, beach ready bodies at anytime, that’s what sexy this week.

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Wacky Wednesday: Enchanted Doll, Dolls by Marina Bychkova

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Enchanted Doll, doll’s by Marina Bychkova, a Russian-Canadian figurative artist and founder of Enchanted Doll™- a luxury toy label of exquisite, porcelain dolls. are nothing short of what she calls her site. Enchanting, yet another great find from my travels in the Pinterest realm.

Most people know I love dolls, but more in particular dolls produced in the style of what I call, the “Barbie” look. Dolls for the most part considered outrageous and not good role models for little girls. Well folks, these dolls I would say are NOT for little girls or boys, but for the adult minded that take great care and pride in displaying these gems of exquisite artistry. These dolls are enchanting fairy tales brought to life for the serious connoisseur of things beautiful.

These dolls are made with great care from ceramics, bendable, movable dolls crafted with great detail paying strict attention to the colour of the skin and make-up, the accessories used to adorn them, fabrics for the costumes, realistic hair, and facial expressions. Even the genitalia is expertly painted and detailed! Yes she creates dolls that are beautifully nude, and on the opposite side of the spectrum, dressed beyond compare. Fantasy is not something she shies away from.

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Wacky Wednesday: Matt Crump’s Rich Pastel Photographic Manipulations

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Most folks shy away from the use of pastels, especially men, however Matt Crump’s rich pastels photographic manipulations prove otherwise,  proof he has embraced the use of pastels and is producing some incredible works of art that are downright delicious.

Wikipedia describes; 

“Pastels or pastel colours are the family of colours which, when described in the HSV colour space, have high value and low to intermediate saturation. The name comes from pastels, art media characteristic of this colour family. The colours of this family are usually described as “soothing”,”soft”, “near neutral”, “milky”, “washed out”, “desaturated”, and lacking strong chromatic content.

Pink, mauve, and baby blue are typical pastel colours.”

Everyone knows I’m big on pink and pastels, and if you don’t, well now you do! I feel and believe there is so much strength in these types of colours that paired with black or other colours, shades, and tones of opposite value or slight variation on the colour wheel, they are downright sexy and awe inspiring.

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